THE CREATIVE MOM

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Complete collection of stories, essays, and reviews

Managing Expectations: D*mned by Expectations 2

By Patrice • 01/22/2026

I originally started this entry and had to come back to it to figure out what I actually wanted to say. I've written about expectations before, and I wanted this one to be different.

We Don't Take in All Art the Same. But What's the Difference?

By Patrice • 01/11/2026

Have you ever noticed the difference in how we take in different forms of art? From the amount of time we give to honor it, to the senses we use - it's entirely different from top to bottom.

Validity vs Vulnerability. Do We Want to Be Understood or to Be Approved?

By Patrice • 12/27/2025

Choosing between seeking approval from others or being vulnerable and authentic in our creative work is a constant struggle. Which matters more?

Creating Work That Matters, and What's the Purpose Behind My Work?

By Patrice • 12/13/2025

As a creative who is still maturing as a filmmaker, I often wonder if creating deep, impactful work makes me any less of an artist, or makes my work any less valuable to an audience.

When is it a 'Bad' Idea vs a Good Idea?

By Patrice • 12/10/2025

Sometimes I'll come up with an idea for a film that I'd fall in love with, only for someone to suggest changes or not see it the way I do. Is it a bad idea, or does it just need time?

What Does 'Mom Guilt' Feel Like in My Creative Life?

By Patrice • 12/08/2025

Late night reflections on balancing motherhood with creative ambitions, and the guilt that comes with choosing between the two.

Finding My Creative Identity

By Patrice • 12/07/2025

Balancing motherhood and creativity has been its own kind of production. A transparent look at the pre-production, production, and post of creating while parenting.